How Do I Stop Being a Perfectionist?

“How do I stop being a perfectionist? How do you move away from perfectionism?”

These are the questions you ask, and on one level the answers are simple.

We shift out of perfectionism through daily, real-world action, rewriting our old patterns of behavior and belief.

But you’re not just asking for the how-to. You’re asking for the hope. You’re asking, “Is it really possible for us to change?”

Let me tell you a story.

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Make Decisions, Save Your Life

Even though I was scared, my coach challenged me to do it, so I did.

What’s that, you say? I recorded a new, vulnerable video for you. It’s based on questions I received via The Clarity Course survey …

“I want to trust my decisions, but I always see both sides (take the opportunity or don’t take). Is there a process that I can go through that will make decision making easier?”

“Best advice for someone who is struggling with the fear of uncertainty in making decisions?”

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“The Conditions Are Always Impossible.”

Have you ever had the experience of reading a quote that just gets under your skin and will not leave you alone? Ever read a few words and had that shivery feeling of truth spoken directly to your spirit?

This is the Doris Lessing quote that’s been following me around lately:

“Whatever you’re meant to do, do it now. The conditions are always impossible.”

Amen to that, right?

That quote has helped me so much. Since I read it, I stopped procrastinating and started writing my next book.

Now, I had all kinds of reasons why the conditions were “impossible” for me to block off this creative time. For example …

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