Stop Believing Shame’s Lies (and a Giveaway to Help!)

There’s a lie that you and I both believe, and it’s sneaky.

Here’s how it happens: first, you start struggling with feelings of shame. Maybe you made a comment that you wish that you hadn’t, or you looked in the mirror and realized that you’re out of shape.

Shame engulfs you like one of J.K. Rowling’s Dementors, those terrifying wraiths that drain happiness. Soon you’re locked in what author and researcher Brené Brown calls a “shame spiral”.

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What to Do When You Feel Not Good Enough

Don’t you love how every epic saga starts with the main character going through their usual routine for the millionth time?

Cinderella sweeps the hearth and endures the same familial abuse.

Katniss goes to the Reaping and faces the same brutal injustice.

Lyra prowls Oxford and hides from the same protective grownups. (If you haven’t read the His Dark Materials trilogy by Phillip Pullman, please cancel your plans and remedy this oversight immediately.)

And then something bizarre happens. A fairy godmother shows up, a familiar name is called, someone slips poison into a glass. In a moment, the journey begins.

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Have You Forgotten What Matters Most?

If so, don’t worry. At A Wish Come Clear, we help each other to remember.

Maybe you’re feeling lost and stressed out, stuck in an “I’m not good enough” shame spiral. Maybe you’re tired of the pressure, afraid that something is about to go wrong (and that it will be your fault). Maybe you’re going a little crazy trying to please everybody, wishing that you had permission to just be yourself.

If you can relate, you’ve come to the right place. Here, we practice choosing love, losing fear, and finding home … home within ourselves, and home with one another.

Join us on the journey, and receive three free books designed to bring you back to what matters most.

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